I think you are missing the point.
You are attached by strings, if you are not you would not even be posting here.
Unconditional love is a love that has no boundaries,no judgements,no concern for anything but for the person and in what manner and fashion they need help or love, as opposed to "no strings attached" statement.
Unconditional love is the love for someone irregardless of how ugly they are or how bad or good one is. A beloved pet has unconditional love for its owner irregardless of how ugly the owner is. Although, if that owner is abusive towards the animal, of course, the animal will eventually turn against the one who is abusive eventually. Another example is a parents love for their children, no matter how good, bad, ugly, good looking their child is in reality, they love them unconditionally. Even loving someone, who was once beautiful and became disfigured and you still love them and adore them is another form of unconditional love.
As far as the strings being attached if you are not entangled with this woman, as you say, then can you cold turkey, stop your relationship now? Go ahead, do it now, I dare you. I am sure you can not. Because simply, you have strings attached.
Perhaps, you do not want to have control or any power over her, or wish to impart your ideas or thinking upon her, at any cost, but you both came to a mutual agreement as to what you both weighed her situation as being and then with advice and discussions amongst yourselves,cme to some sort of conclusion and plan.
You do not have to prove me wrong. I am not wrong. You are assisting her personally. You know her intimately. You are deeply involved. I do not need any specifics but just what you have written about already. You have strings attached now , you just don't acknowledge it, nor do you want to admit it. If you have no strings attached then stop now, whatever you are doing with her. Walk away.
What you are describing, is that after all the hard work, or the time and effort you have been involved in with her, that if she decides to stop friending you, or being intimately involved with you(how can that even be possible if you say there are no strings attached) that you will not be hurt or annoyed etc etc. That is something entirely different.
Ok,for example, so I showed you my real birth certificate proving beyond a shadow of a doubt, that I am born in the USA, and then another person comes along and says nope, it is not real, it is not true, I am not a citizen, bla bla bla. I truly hope you see my point here and now.
Then you do not care about the other half of the crowd there(the members). Wow, you sound like a few others now. That world is a shithole, plain and simple. There are good and bad members as well as models. Who is judging now, hmmm by your statements.
Like I am stating here and previously, if you truly wanted no emotional fallout, no "strings attached", no personal involvement but to do the altruistic thing for a person or persons in a bad situation. Then step back, and acknowledge that it can be done in a more impersonal manner and fashion, then you or anyone else, as an individual, are describing here.
What people seem to be missing, is that you, Reuters, and others, individually, choose and pick a singular person, and get involved with them. You enter into a persons personal lives, and become a string attached. If you want to be altruistic and with "no strings attached", then I suggest not to get involved in the individualistic manner you chose. The problem is the blinders worn by people blind them to the obvious.
All these "white knights" going around with their own agendas, or forms of assistance, and self centered motivations, are choosing and picking their own person to sponsor, so to speak.
If you truly want to help people, with no personal involvement but for the best for them, and not for yourselves, then there is another path and methodology.
One fine example, is to assist a group of people with training, supplies, education and monetary assistance without embedding oneself into an individuals life. Supply the constructive tools for people to learn and become independent of their own and on their own, by unknown people from wherever without intruding into their personal lives. To me, that is altruistic and less "string attached".
Just because you think and say, it ain't so, does not mean it ain't so.
I could care less what you are doing that you are afraid to admit here in public, it has no relevance to what you want to believe and what the reality is.
I suggest you take a step back as I advised you, and stop argueing semantics. It just won't work on me. Been there done that, you are not the first nor will be the last person to do what you are doing.
Do not take what I write here as offensive. I am being objective here.