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Mar 17 10 11:43 PM

I totally agree with you realcamgirl.

You have the control as an independent model, and it is empowering you. Empowering you to have and enjoy a better way of life.

There also is nothing wrong with the naked body. I congratulate you on your ability to make a living in a good paying job.

I also feel, that many other professions may be more important in the grand scheme of things.
We all want to attain a better lifestyle, and just be happy.

And we all comprehend that everyone needs their fantasies.

But, there is a huge disparity between independents and studio girls, especially from some countries in this field that their specific locations may dictate, the choices made and where to work from.

For an interested observer or friend, to hear stories of their lives, and their honest confessions and then to see that it may, or may not be true. Then there are some that may find something truly improper in that type of business or moral conduct, as we all might agree upon, shall we say.

And yes, I do have a few friends who work as models. One in particular, has become someone I can truly and honestly say is a very good friend.

In so much as judging and stereotyping others, I suggest that it works both ways.

I am thanking you, that you have taken the time to express your thoughts once again.

Finally, we all have intimate parts within ourselves, not just in the literal sense of the words. To bare ones inner thoughts to someone is like stripping themselves naked to another person and sharing a part of themselves and unprotected.It takes patience and understanding on all involved to have the courage to speak their feelings and not be offended or misjudged, from both sides.

I am ashamed with people using others at the expense of others though(no, I am not pointing a finger at you).

Many examples of that abound though. But then people will say that these other victims brought it upon themselves.

So when a person has too much to drink at a bar, it is the right and responsibility of the owner to stop a person from becoming excessively drunk. Or the person that is held accountable for not making the passenger in their front seat who got hurt by not wearing their seatbelt. Or the drug addict who needs outside intervention because they have fallen into a bad vice.

I am merely suggesting that there are those that are addicted and do not realize how obsessed they may be. Now who is responsible for their safety if this has the annonymity of a safe haven of ones own home hidden from others? I hope you do not see this as me being rude or offensive. I am just pointing out other alternative viewpoints. It is not the work you do, or anyone does, it is how we all treat each other and take the time to listen even if we agree or not agree.


The only thing necessary for the triumph of evil...is for good men to do nothing
Edmund Burke(1729-1797)
Irish Philosopher,statesman

�With integrity, nothing else counts. Without integrity, nothing else counts.�

We can't solve problems by using the same kind of thinking we used when we created them. � Albert Einstein.

"To see what is right, and not to do it, is want of courage or of principle."


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#22 [url]

Jul 25 10 9:59 PM

Can somebody prepare a spanish translation of this thread?

My spanish is far too little to do such a complex translation...

I am sure a lot of latin models will appreciate it...


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Aug 2 10 5:50 PM

friend, you can use google translation, copy/paste the text and you have a translation - is not perfect, but understandable as big picture.

You cannot be part of the crowd and achieve your dream at the same time.

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Aug 4 12 7:34 PM

Tom nice work... I would add that in the same way this typology does not apply to all models, it does not always apply to all users. You were very right about a model user interaction not being porn.
I can tell you that cam to cam interactions between users (non- model and non-model), lead to many similar problems, the currency being emotion.

Buying an emotional/ psychological experience, with consent, should be expensive because of the risks involved to the model. I would add that many interactions in a models room are also pure competition, with only marginal relation to the model herself.

The typology you posted seems accurate enough to fit most assumptions. It was interesting ...thx

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Sep 2 14 2:45 AM

Tom it was a very good analysis, of some of the issue facing webcam models. Thank you Delfina for your comments and insights they deepened the discussion. Uncle Lewis allowed us to reflect on some of complex issues facing webcam models. And thank you to all others adding to this discussion. Tom I would like comment on your five types of buyers. There are many reasons than men or women buy webcam services and you have identified some of them. I think you have forgotten the people who actually care about these models as people. People who work to pay bills, get an education, improve their lot in life. People with real problems, real emotions and we want to support them. We are not looking to exploit them or save them, but allow them to interact with us on their terms. We don't demand things of them. We are pleased that are willing to share their lives with us. We want them to be successful, happy, emotionally and financially stable. Yes, Our feelings for them may colour our hopes and dreams for them and ourselves, but we are mindful of the things we can and can't do through a computer screen. When the model is having a bad day I can't reach in and give the model a massage. I can only show that someone in this world cares about whom they are as a person.

Thanks for listening to the rantings of a deranged mind. (Smile)

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