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For all those current and former clients, here's a blow by blow description of how a Master Web-pimp teaches his cam girls and cam guys to play on your emotions and sexual tics...So speaking of eye-candy this manual is must reading because it will help you understand exactly where you are meant to fit in this industry as a client.
Fortunately, a great many models refuse to run their rooms according to these rules - just as many of them and some of their clients resolutely resist staying within the restricted, commerical roles assigned them by Web-Pimps.
But read on anyway, it's a hoot!!

The XXXX4XXXX Model Manual

1 Introduction… this is an amazingly cynical in-house document from a top American web-site that was sent to us by one of our cam-girl correspondents. But however cynical and mean-spirited, it has tons of advice on how to transform a model’s online persona from that of an amateur video chat hostess into that of a professional, cyber-sex “webcam-nymph” who makes tons of money. This advice is based on years of experience in the seXXXbizness and solid market research.

2 The question is do Models really want to become the kind of professional sex-worker their web pimp employers expect them to become – even if their performance on line is “just acting?”

3 We should note, however, that we think that this tried and tested approach to customer satisfaction through sexual stimulation is about to be subject to a strong legal challenge in the US – where the Bush administration has a general crackdown on the porn industry underway. Already the smarter sites –like babevid.com for instance – explicitly declare they do NOT offer pornography in open rooms – and state they show nothing sexier in free chat than what one might see on a pubic beach. What they do say they offer is “a free speech zone for adult conversation” where discussions between model and clients in private sessions are none of their concern” – even though WE KNOW that it’s actually the living heart of their business and the only way models get paid…
4 But if we are right about the anti-porn crackdown that’s now in the works in the USA, then the whole racy, hard-edged approach recommended by the top sex sites is as dead a dodo… Therefore, many of our model friends might be well advised to keep on doing what many of them are doing so well already – running a friendly room open to all kinds of conversation and kicking sexual beggars out every time they rear their ugly heads..

5 However, this is not at all what the top Web-pimps would recommend!! And they are pros at making this job pay for camgirls - but primarily in order to enrich themselves. So here goes with their approach from their official Machiavellian Hand-book on how to manipulate wankers and lonely hearts to a model’s maximum advantage – and to their commercial interest as well…

Model Manual from XXXX4XXXX

1 Introduction

Welcome to the enterprising world of XXX4XXX Being a model on XXX4XXX is a great privilege. It gives you a chance to gain worldwide exposure with the possibility of achieving fame and recognition. Based on the amount of registered users that we currently have, our models are broadcasted to more people than an entire country’s network television station. If you agree to appear on XXX4XXX, we ask you ONLY appear on our site and do not work for other adult websites.

Our goal is to make everybody money, but in order to do so it is necessary that the models who appear on XXX4XXX perform to the best of their ability. Besides leading our industry in technological advances, we provide the most beautiful and talented men and women performers available on the Internet.

This Guide describes the standards that we MUST follow and demand of all models that appear on XXX4XXX in order for us to give the best customer service and maintain our professional reputation.

This Guide is a description of the type of performance and behavior we need to see from all models that appear on XXX4XXX. However, you are not our employee, so you are ultimately responsible to your employer and your employer will explain the duties and obligations of your employment. This Guide is meant to be helpful to you and share the experience we have developed over time operating XXXXX4XXX and observing how other models have been successful in doing their jobs. In the last analysis your employer determines and is responsible for setting the policies and standards relating to your employment.

2 Know your web site

Having a complete understanding of how the XXX4XXX Network operates will help you sell shows. Your knowledge of XXX4XXXis vital to assisting customers to navigate the site. The site can be confusing and overwhelming to a new customer. Become the new customer’s friend and assist him or her when they want help. Site knowledge is a powerful tool to gain a customer’s confidence. Be your own monitors; know more than the customers do. Have you ever seen these questions and not known what to say? If you can’t answer all of the questions below or guide the customers to the answers, you are losing shows! We guarantee it.

a) How much $ are 1on1 shows?
B) What is a 1on1 show?
c) How do I sign up?
d) Why do they want my credit card if it’s a free site?
e) Why do I have to call customer service to activate my account?
f) I bought time and it says I don’t have any, what do I do?
g) What do you mean Free Chat? I paid to be here.
h) Why aren’t you naked? It says Naked Chat right on the entrance.
i) Can you do couples shows? Why not?
j) How do I buy time?
k) Are you really live?
1) How do phone shows work, why do some models do phone shows
and some don’t?
m) Why can’t I find you in the models available area on the enter

Have your studio administrator/manager sign up on the site as a customer and show you how customers get into our shows. See for yourself how to navigate the site. Become an expert on how to get around the site, sign up, buy time and enter a 1on1 show, voyeur shows, etc. This will only help you make more money!

3 Conduct In Open Room And Private

For compliance we must absolutely follow these guidelines. Customers do not need a credit card to enter XXX4XXX; therefore we need each and every model and performer who appears on XXX4XXX to strictly abide by these guidelines. Failure to do so will result in penalties, up to expulsion from working on XXX4XXX. We take these offenses very seriously.


The following is a list of behavior or activities, which are NOT permitted while a model appears in an Open Room.

~ No eating!
~ No drinking!
~ No smoking!
~ No use of phones or giving out phone numbers!
~ No begging for tips!
~ No music or voices in the background
~ No sunglasses
~ No genitalia exposure (models MUST wear bottoms in open at all times)
~ No spitting saliva from mouth to mouth
~ No using food to penetrate yourself
~ No urinating or defecating of any kind
~ No fisting (no more than 4 fingers may be inserted at one time)
~ No wax dripping
~ No one sharing the same dildo
~ No insertion of foreign objects such as bottles, candles etc…
~ No menstruation topics
~ No statements, comments or behavior that would create the impression that you are a minor, or under-aged
~ No masturbation
~ No forced sex or rape themes
~ Do not disappear from the view of the camera
~ Do not forget to click the “take a break” button, if you take one
~ Do not insult users or use derogatory remarks to describe them


The following is a list of behavior or activities, which ARE permitted while a model appears in an Open Room.

~ You may show toys but no penetration
~ You may show breasts.
~ You may show butt with no spread cheeks.
~ You may perform oral on toys.

3.2 Do’s And Don’ts In The 1on1 Show

The following is a list of behavior or activities, which are NOT permitted while a model appears in a 1on1 show.

~ No eating! Except on request
~ No drinking! Except on request
~ No smoking! Except on request
~ No sunglasses. Except on request
~ No begging for tips!
~ No music or voices in the background
~ No spitting saliva from mouth to mouth
~ No statements, comments or behavior that would create the impression that you are a minor, or under-aged
~ No using food to penetrate yourself
~ No urinating or defecating of any kind
~ No fisting (no more than 4 fingers may be inserted at one time)
~ No wax dripping
~ No one sharing the same dildo
~ No menstruation topics
~ No forced sex or rape themes.
~ No insertion of foreign objects such as bottles, candles etc…
~ Do not insult users or use derogatory remarks to describe them.

If someone else is seen in your model’s room when they are broadcasting in open or private, they can be immediately terminated and your studio can suffer a large penalty. THERE IS NO ROOM FOR ERROR HERE, PLEASE TAKE IT SERIOUSLY.

3.3 Trademark and copyright violations

Under no circumstances are models to wear brand names of any kind on their clothing while on XXX4XXXX. Furthermore, there should never be (for example) a Coca-Cola can visible while a model is on XXX4XXX. No music of any kind can be heard over the audio while performing on XXX4XXX.

America has very strict laws for violating trademarks and copyrights. Protect yourselves and your models from this illegal activity.


It is totally unacceptable for performers to beg, lie and cheat our customers into sending you money.

Some performers in the past have promised a relationship if customers send money via wires/western union/checks etc. Some performers have simply lied and told customers that they have no money, or that they are sick or even worse... dying of cancer.

Any performer who is found receiving, asking, begging, lying for money or accepting gifts or money outside of the XXX4XXX live video chat, will be terminated and banned from ALL XXX4XXX studios world wide.

We have worked very hard to build a trustful relationship with our customers. They email us and tell us everything. If you break this rule, our customers will inform us and then you will be out of a job.

Our staff will be acting like private customers from time to time and testing performers to see if they are tempted to accept money outside of XXXX4XXX.

If you participate in this type of activity, I will view it as though you are stealing from our company, you are degrading our business and ruining the trust of our loyal customers...

These people are OUR customers. WE brought them to XXXX4XXXX. Take this warning very seriously because there are no second chances.

3.5 Helpful Suggestions That Work

Always remember that you are giving a performance for the benefit of the person who is watching you online, therefore:

~ Place your camera close to the screen that you are reading, so it appears that you are looking into the camera when you are reading the chat.
~ Make sure there is enough light on you for the camera.
~ Pretend to remember the customer and try to inconspicuously take
notes so you do not have to pretend for long.
~ Always smile and try to laugh often.
~ Make sure you are always “featuring” something in the camera frame.
~ If you have to do anything that is not sexy, try to do it outside the
camera frame.
~ Always find a way to say yes to every request, be inventive and creative when you are teasing the customers.
~ Keep all your toys handy, clean and ready to go at the start of every show.
~ Answer requests to do things right away, customers want to make sure models won’t waste their time in private.
~ Use the customer’s nickname a lot, especially when you ask them questions.
~ Spread your attention around. Make every customer want to take you away from the other people in the chat room.
~ Blowing kisses might be the key to getting more private time.
~ Make sure to let customers know when you are scheduled for your next couple of shifts.
~ Get an account, spend some time pretending to be a customer and memorize everything on the customer screen. You want to be able to tell them how to do things like take you into a 1on1 or how to you tip you, right?
~ Wear matching outfits of the same color, sexy lingerie, and high heels.
~ Have finger and toenails painted, no chipped nails.
~ Be clean-shaven or trimmed

4 Master Your Room To Maximize Your Minutes

4.1 Frenzy

What is “frenzy” and why is it good for your chat? Frenzy is the number of members in your open room that are going nuts to see you naked, do certain acts, get to know you, asking for your websites and email address, typing in “CAPS” to get your attention, etc. This takes patience because we are going to suggest that you learn to drive Frenzy in your open room and at the same time ignore the Frenzy! This means, do not be angry or upset when customers are asking to see you naked in the open room. Selling shows is a numbers game. The more customers you keep in the open room, the better.

How do you hold interest? It’s not hard, if you are actively posing, showing off and talking with some erotic overtones. Remember, this is a site based on SEX and erotic themes and bringing the subject back to SEX and erotic themes in subtle ways is critical to maintain a high customer count.

Good Frenzy is a lot of customers chatting at a fast pace, asking for everything possible. The more excited they are the more you will sell. We want to suggest that the best way to control your room is to let the comments fly, fast and furious. Do not attempt to control the customer’s styles or whether or not they type in “CAPS” or lower case. You may have a brand new customer that has no chat experience that has purchased 10, 20 or 30 minutes of time for a l on l show. Upsetting that new customer by telling them to drop their “CAPS” could cost you a long show and a lot of minutes.

We like to see Frenzy driven in the following manner. Pose and include some occasional flashes here and there. Keep the overall subject matter about SEX, after all that’s why the customer is here. Ignore demanding and begging comments totally, or better yet, encourage them! Having hundreds of customers all worked up, begging and demanding show how you are doing on building Frenzy. Customers like to see you are popular and understanding of their state of mind. They also like to think of themselves as your savior coming to your rescue, taking you away from all the madness. You want to drive your customers crazy enough to forget their fears and sign up and purchase a 1on1 show.

The more Frenzy you drive; the more customers you affect. At $5 or $6 per minute of show time, we MUST fulfill the customer’s fantasies. Customers see their wives, girlfriends, boyfriends, secretaries and coworkers sit and type or pay bills or watch TV everyday, give them a reason to stay in your room and escape their reality.

Always remember that you are a performer, an actor, and you should do everything possible to give an inspired performance, with sexy and erotic overtones and suggestiveness. That is what the viewer is looking for – an erotic experience. It is up to you to fulfill the viewer’s expectations with your acting skills.

4.2 Chat Mixture

We think that 75% of your comments should be directed towards the room as a group. 25% should be focused on individual attention. This is called Chat Mixture.

One of the best ways to control the customers is to not give too much individual attention. Comments to the group as a whole convey a very subtle message, and that message is; “If you want my individual attention, buy a 1on1 show to get it.” We‘re not saying don’t chat with the open room customers, but less chat directed at each individual person is a good thing. Acknowledging the new customer that just comes in is very good. Even if his first comment is, “Show me your pussy/cock” you can let him know you see him with a simple, tolerating reply like “Hey, aren’t you going to say “Hi” to me first (insert customer name)?” At least they know you saw them and you’re not bringing the atmosphere down with negativity. After that, continue talking to the group.

Use HUMOR and a POSITIVE approach. Talk to the group as a whole, with less emphasis on individual chat because of the tone it sets. The role you are playing online should convey the following impression to the viewer: “I’m not here to make money. I’m just naturally horny and do this to get off.”

It is truly amazing what the customers will believe! We’re going to list some comments that we think are good things to say to the group. These are just a few examples. The things you say to the room, as a group is limitless. If you strike a nerve with the customers, with one of your comments, continue with it. Let the customers join in your “fake” fantasy.

Here are some examples of dialogue you can consider using during your online performance:
• I have dreamt about sex all night and I am sooooo horny right now!!!
• I am sooooo horny right now, I could cum in 2 minutes, I just need
someone to fuck me!!
• I am going crazy; all I want to do is cum!!!
• I have not cum once today. Who wants to be my first orgasm??
• Who wants to fuck me???
• It turns me on sooooo much knowing all of you want to fuck.
• My pussy is sooooo, wet and tight, it feels sooo good to
• I love the taste of my own pussy juice. I love to lick it off of my
• I need a big dick to stretch my pussy and make me cum.
• I haven’t cum in 5 days. I am going crazy!!!
• I just broke up with my boyfriend and I need a rebound man to
really fuck me hard!!!
• I love to get blasted with cum and lick up every drop.
• I am such a slut. All I do is fuck.
• I have been such a bad girl today, all I can think about is getting naked

Obviously these are only examples, improvise and use your imagination! You are giving a performance; try to make it as exciting, playful and sexy as you can.

4.3 Use Audio To Your Advantage

The audio feature will enhance your 1on1 shows 100%. There is nothing more erotic to our customers than hearing a beautiful man or woman moan your name as they manipulate themselves to an orgasm. With every single 1on1 show that you get you should ask the user what their real name is. Ask them where they are from; ask them their email address in hope of exchanging pictures. The closer you get and the more you know about someone, the harder they will fall for you. That is how you gain loyal and exclusive customers. This makes the experience much more personal for the viewer. People will feel a lot closer to you being able to hear your voice.

If you are new and feel uncomfortable using audio, do not worry. Just like anything, it gets better and easier the more you practice and gain experience as a performer. This is your show; you are the star. They are paying for your individual attention; make it worth their money. If you run out of things to say, moan and groan. People love to hear someone demanding them to fuck them harder over and over again. Name repetition is also good. It is a fact that the more you say someone’s name; the more they will psychologically be attached to you.

We do advertise with audio so it is absolutely necessary that every single room that is live have audio!!!

4.4 Never Say No In Your Chat Room

This is so important and it takes creativity on your part to answer all questions with positive responses. We know it sounds impossible to always say yes, so let us give some examples of how to say “yes” to customers’ questions (even when your REAL answer is no.) Remember, the idea is to get them in 1on1; you can worry about the details after they are in the show.

• Customer: “Do you do anal?” (Let’s assume that you don‘t)
• Model: “Customer, I’m an anal virgin, will you go slow with me in a private show if I try for you?”

• Customer: “Do you escort?” or “Are you a prostitute?”
• Model: “I have met two of my best customers so far, not for
money... just for fun.

• Customer: “Do you fist in 1-on-1?”
• Model: “Customer, I can try for you, so far I can only do 3 fingers.”

• Customer: “Do you pee in the private show?”
• Model: “Customer, ummmmm I’m not allowed to but you can. LOL”

• Customer: “Do you do 2 girl or 2 guy shows?”
• Model: (If you don’t do 2 girl or 2 guy shows) “Customer, I do but I
have to know you really well first before I ask my girlfriend or boyfriend to come over. Wanna cum get to know me?”

• Customer “Do you have a website?”
• Model: “Customer, I’m not allowed to talk about other sites in the open room... cum see me alone and let’s talk. ”

• Customer: “What’s your email address?”
• Model: “Customer, I only give my email address to my customers, I send them special surprises.”

• Customer: “Do you do double penetration in private shows?”
• Model: “Customer, I’ve never done it, will you go slow with me and cum
teach me in my room?”
• Model: (If you don’t have any toys) “I’m going to buy some toys soon
Customer, do you want to cum in my private room and suggest what kind of toys I should get? ”

• Customer: “Do you do phone shows?
• Model: (If you don’t do phone) “Customer, I do phone only with my best
Customers’, I’m shy that way, I have to get to know you first. ”

***NOTICE all the  (smiley faces), they help show your customers that you are a happy person.***

4.5 Hangers On

Hangers On are customers that fall in love with you and spend everyone waking moment in your open room, but they NEVER buy a 1on1 show. How do you handle a Hanger On type person? The first is to stay polite but not give too much attention. Give just enough to keep them interested and coming back.

Time works wonders for Hangers On. They tend to be slow to decide on signing up on the site. They have common fears about credit card security on the web, they may be on a limited budget, and they may just not “believe” this is the real thing.” I’m sure you’ve heard all the excuses from Hangers On types.

Here are a few different ways to handle these hard-to-sell customers:

a) Just stay nice, don’t put too much attention on them and see if time
works and they eventually sign up and buy. This is tricky; because the more attention you give them the happier they are not buying a 1on1 show.

B) After giving them some special attention to bolster their egos, try this little trick. “Customer, want to play a game with me?” (They will always say yes) “Okay Customer, I’m going to put you on a chat time out until you sign up and get a 1on1 show... ” Make sure they see you giggling or use a smiley face. If you try this, you need HUMOR with it.

c) Tell them how sweet they are and you understand how difficult it is to sign up and buy a show. Try to recruit them to help you sell your 1on1 shows. They’ll jump on this until they realize there is nothing in it for them.

d) Work one Hanger On against another, jealousy works wonders.

4.6 Abusive Customers

No need to explain to you what an abusive customer is. You’ve seen all kinds of them in your open room. This suggestion is radical and takes some amount of pride swallowing but it’s very effective and you will ultimately win. Abusive customers are all looking for the same thing: ATTENTION. They go for the negative attention, one reason they act like this is that they are so good at getting what they want, negative attention.

What you have going for you though is the fact that all abusive customers are children at heart, immature people that are easily controlled with some creative thinking. Try this once, it will work 9 times out of 10. We know your first impulse is to kick them out, but try this formula. Compliment their behavior and then ask a personal question.

For example:

Customer comes in your chat and types in all caps saying “SHOW ME PUSSY/COCK BITCH!”

(You) “Customer, Oh my you are so demanding, I like that, where are you from?”

We can almost guarantee this will catch them off-guard. It is the VERY last thing they expected to hear from you. The typical answer they give to this response is “I’m from Chicago, why?” They are totally dumbfounded and you have just taken control. This is much easier than doing what we call “Swatting a Hornet.” When you take the negative approach with them and get angry and kick them out of your open room, they come back being more of a problem and even more annoying. It’s a lot more fun to control these types than escalate a fight with them. As a performer you should always try to use your talent and ability to convert a hostile or rude viewer into potential customer who is just dying to see you in a 1on1 show just for him.


4.7 Acting Verses Modeling

We have people constantly monitoring the open room. We have seen many models complaining to their customers about how slow it is or how cheap they are. Some even sit there looking bored and sad. No customer is going to spend $5 or $6 per minute on a girl/guy that is sitting there all angry and upset. You have to act, and it has to be a stellar performance. The customers cannot know you are upset or feeling down. THEY WANT HAPPY GIRLS and GUYS.

Imagine this, a customer has a wife that’s grumpy and uptight. He waits for her to go to bed so he can get online and enjoy some hot girls/guys. He goes in your room and he sees you chatting about your problems! He’s gone and so is his $$$. We expect every model to remember that first and foremost you are an actor who is online to provide an exciting and sexy performance for your audience and not let the customers know you are unhappy or upset. If you cannot act fresh, cheerful and sexy, sign off and come back on when you can put on a happy, sexy face.

4.8 Game

What is your game? Is your game working? Do you always have a game plan in mind when you work your chat?
Here’s an example of a really bad game we saw a model on another site recently. We popped in the room and here‘s what she said; “Well guys, my husband is home today watching the kids so I have some time to play, who wants a show?” We were out of that room before the model could finish the next sentence! And so was every potential buyer with 100 miles.

The money is in LONELY MEN and not horny men. If you notice any of the models you see that are in a long l on l show, you will notice the shows are usually talk shows, lots of typing with their outfits still on. The reason is the customer is lonely and wants to talk. Lonely customer fantasies are different than the sex show customer fantasies. Lonely customers fantasize about having a girl/guy like you, about dating you, courting you and maybe even being married to you. They want to introduce you to their friends, show you off and go out on the town with you on their arm. Lonely men do not want to end the show if they still have hope of reaching their fantasies. Sex show customers on the other hand, masturbate and then leave.

Appealing to the lonely customer is easy. Always remember that your ROLE is to ACT SINGLE and convey the impression you are available! Make the customer feel special. The game of acting single has to be subtle and coy. If you come on too strong they know you’re pretending. Customers will refuse to believe you are single even if you are. But, they do believe that you are going through a breakup.
Everyone can relate to that because most everyone goes through breakups or knows someone that has. We saw a model using this breakup routine in the open room the other day, one of the customers asked why the model broke up and the model’s reply was pure genius. The model said, “I dumped him because he was too cheap!” Perfect! What a great subversive way to say, “If you want me, step up and spend some money on me.” Your open room should have a low-key, underlying message of “I’m single and looking.” If you can succeed in playing the part of a single person looking for a relationship, that performance will over time attract some lonely buyers, and with that comes longer shows with less physical work, more minutes and more $$$.
4.9 Where Are The Buyers??

How do you know if a customer has an account? Are most customers who purchase 1on1 shows talking in Free Chat or lurking on the sidelines? How do you identify someone who will sign up and spend money? Are there countries that can’t get accounts because of high credit card fraud? What age is the average customer? How do you know whom to target? With the system not having a way for models to see who is a member and who isn’t, it’s hard to know who to concentrate on and who to ignore. We will attempt to shed some light on where the buyers are and how to bring them in to chat with you.

Our statistics show that only about 15% of the customers actually buy shows. That means two things; 85% of customers do not buy. It also means that the majority of your buyers don’t ever talk in open room! This is exactly why it’s so important how you respond to the customer, you need to impress the customers that are lurking in your open room but staying quiet and not chatting. We can’t stress too much how important it is for you to realize that most buyers don’t chat in the Free Chat. Post a big sign on your monitor “I AM CHATTING TO IMPRESS THE NON CHATTERS.” This will remind you that most buyers do NOT chat in the open room. They simply “window shop” and they browse the rooms until they find a model worth going on a 1on1 show with.

Let us play the average buyers for a minute here (ones that already have an account). First of all, why are we using the Internet for sex and/or companionship? Well... We gave up long ago trying to meet a girl/guy as gorgeous as you. Maybe we were shunned in school or in clubs and bars. Perhaps we have prudish wives or girl/boyfriends and we long for hot sex and intimate conversation. We like Internet girls/guys because we don’t have to compete with the other guys for them. We find one we like and we take her, no hassles, no questions, no worrying about our looks.

Normal preliminaries of courtship are dispensed with and we can get right to whatever we want, whether it’s sex or conversation or both. We go from one model‘s room to the next looking for our type of girl or guy, one that we’re attracted to physically and also we have to like her/his personality. So we watch her/him, and read the chat. We’re not going to compete in open room for her/his attention because if we decide we want her/him, we’re just going to get a show, and take her/him. We hate trying to get her/his attention in open room. We like the feeling of taking her/him from the other customers and having her/him to ourselves.
Is she/he bubbly and sexy and nice? Is she/he tolerant of all the crazy customers? Is she/he single? Do we have even a remote hope of ever meeting her/him? Does she/he seem like that type of girl/guy that’s going to give us what we want right away and not milk us for our minutes? We hate being milked for our minutes; some of theses models think we’re stupid and that we don’t know they’re milking us. If she/he does that to us we’ll leave the 1on1 show right away and find someone else. Hmmm, she/he just treated that customer very rudely that asked to see her pussy or his cock. We’re going to find a model that is friendlier to horny guys like us.

And off they go... never saying a word in open room, taking their minutes and $$$ with them. That is a shame, if you would have not put a mean look on your face and got upset with that guy that asked to see your pussy or your cock, you might be in a show right now. It can’t be repeated too often: You are a Performer and you must at all times try to give the best performance you can. Stay focused!!

OK, let’s address how to seek out customers who purchase 1on1 shows. There are a few things you can do to do this.

a) Talk to someone that’s not chatting and say something like this: “Hey all you Non-Chatters, don’t hide. Come talk to me. Don’t be shy ”

B) A guy’s talking to you and being kind and gentlemanly, ask him this; “You’re a sweet Gentleman, have you ever bought a 1on1 show from the site before?” The wording here is important, you are not asking him to buy from you, you are merely asking if he’s bought a 1on1 show on the site before. Guys tend to answer this question honestly because it’s not a direct request for them to buy. His answer is very telling. A “no’ answer means he is probably not a buyer and you can work him from that angle.
A ‘yes’ answer means he is a buyer and he is a good prospect to work on.

c) What country are you from? Learn which countries aren’t allowed to open accounts, save your self some time by knowing this.

Lastly for this section is the customer’s age. Be aware that most customers that spend $$$ on longer shows tend to be over 30. Identify the guys over 20 and use your “Game” to work them. Your chances are much better than working on an 18 or 20 year old.

4.10 Buzzwords

Buzzwords are words that turn customers off and drive them away. The way you word your message can make or break your effectiveness. Here are some words that are not appealing.

Time. No need to say time. Chat monitors make everyone aware of it
No need to list them all. When you catch yourself about to type a buzzword rethink it and type something else. Be creative.

Buy. No need to say buy. The trick is to not bring up the thought of spending money. Manipulate their need to get off, not open up their wallet.

Along with buzzwords goes pressure from you to make them buy. Imagine this scenario, a person goes into a strip club and before he can look around and get a feel for the club an anxious stripper comes up to him and grabs his hand and starts dragging me to the lap dance couches. What does he do? He says no! He wants to see the place, get comfortable and check out all the strippers first.

Answering your customers with instant demands for them to buy a 1on1 show is the kiss of death to selling minutes. No one likes a pushy model; very few customers spend money on pushy models. Just because you have demanders and beggars in your chat doesn’t mean you should answer with begging and demanding. If there ever was a case of two wrongs don’t make a right, this is it! Be better than your customers in your attitude; don’t stoop to their levels or methods.

5 Fighting Fraud

We need everyone's cooperation in the fight against fraud. If you suspect that you are in a 1on1 show with a fraudulent customer, you are expected to contact your manager so they may contact us. If we find that you aided in the apprehension of a fraudulent customer, you will be rewarded monetarily. Here are some things to look for to identify fraudulent customer.

~ People who brag about being a "hacker." These people will tell you that they steal credit cards or hack computers.
~ Someone who identifies them self as a minor.
~ Someone who opens up accounts using the same user name that is modified slightly.
~ A new customer who spends an extraordinary amount of time with you.
~ Someone who shows no sexual interest.
~Someone who has a suspicious user name. This one may be difficult but be alert. Here are some examples; these are not actual customer names.

1. Joker69
2. RipUOff
3. CatchMe01
4. CatchMe02
5. CatchMe03......... etc.
6. Casper69 (Casper is a cartoon of a ghost in America)

We need to do everything in our power to stop fraud and we rely on you to help us out.


"I would no more be a Master than a slave. It does not conform to my idea of Democracy." Abraham Lincoln 1856.