Interesting. Why would I take a model private if not but for fake sex? Made to
order porn, so to speak. And if I simply wanted to talk to a person, well, I
suspect I am in the wrong place, but lets go with it for the moment :-) Why
would I send her money to get noticed? If all I really want to do is chat, there are
many other places on the internet to go. So, for me, the only real reason to
talk with any particular model is seeing something worthwhile in that specific
person that made me want to speak with them. Someone posted a link to some
sort of virtual world - wouldn't that be a better place to spend money and meet
Interesting the mention of sending a gift. First, I am surprised a model would
give out an address. This would seem to be very, very risky. We have all been
made aware of the dangers of sex slavery. What better target than some woman
you can see on cam? In the US, we have P.O. boxes - a place in the post office
to receive mail. But, still, very dangerous, it would seem to me. And of course, the
member guidelines at MFC specifically try to talk members out of doing this. Just
send a tip, they say. No where does it say what MFC's cut on a tip is. The
private show, group show, etc, cut is noted, but I could not find the tip cut. I can't
believe models get 100% of the tip (less the studio overhead).
I am quite certain it is possible to meet people online, fall in love,
and marry. My brother did it, but I don't think he met her in a cam-room. Well,
actually, I can be quite certain of that. Some sort of games site, I think.
Anyhow, they are happy, and she is a good person. Also, from Canada, so
not an Eastern European "find a wife" site, for sure.
So, I have many other friends, and they speak to me. And I do not wire them
money :-) Well, maybe if they have gotten into trouble :-) But, outside of that,
why in the world would I do such a thing? Sometimes I liked to give tips on MFC -
I sort of thought of it as buying someone a drink or dinner, perhaps. It made me
happy to give to people that at that time I thought were friends. But, I did not
do it to be noticed. She knew who I was.
So, we come back to "it's a business - this is why I am online", I suppose. Fair
enough, but it doesn't explain why anyone should send money for nothing. Business.
Now, if I were really close to someone - a good friend - I would unquestionably send
money to help pay for education or whatever. I have payed bail for a friend's son,
and I would help pay for certain people's education if it comes to that. But, someone
I do not know?
I don't get it.
As for private: hmmm. I actually have never done that. It would feel strange, I
think, telling a woman what to do and knowing she almost certainly would. That
is not how sex is - you do not "tell" someone what to do - unless you are playing a
game, perhaps. But, in such a game, there is an out, right? But, I did try "spying"
or voyeur as they call it on MFC. With someone you do not know, it is just like
regular ole porn.
If you know the person and have some feelings for them - not love - but a friendly
feeling so to speak....well, that is different. At that point, I had to bow out.
I found the experience rather powerful ... too much like the real thing, with emotion,
and yet, presumably not because I guess she did not know I was there. Who knows.
Very experienced cam model - little gets by her. Probably reading this. She might
even know the code between the name I use here and the name I use on the site. :-)
But, you would hope she was concentrating on the person paying her 60/tokens a minute
and not me.
So, to end: going private, as andreea said, is not something you want to take lightly
if you know who you are going with, and I have to wonder: why not download any
of the zillions of free porn clips if you don't? Why pay $6/minute? I guess if you
want made to order porn. I don't know. Maybe people going private are not as
adept as I am with google and turning off safe search :-) Not to mention the helpful
folk at reddit and other places.
Ah, I have a reason! You can catch a CTD going to those sites (computer transmitted
disease :-)!!! So, MFC and privates are safer! I'm sorry, I don't mean to poke
fun, but I am rotfl. It is good to amuse oneself. Keeps your hands where they belong.
Anyone attempting to use the above idea in a marketing campaign owes me.